I always used to wonder that when I will get fed up of doing and investing myself for relation or on someone. Is it even possible! But now, there is a vague feeling of enough is enough now inside.
Ever wonder that in a relationship, if only person is actively dedicating herself/himself and the other one is actively seeking partner of his/her age in spite of being in a relation - how far this would work? Dedicated person might tolerate everything for year or few more years. Then? Eventually she/he realizes that it won't work. Why it took this long to realize it? Perhaps, the hope that things will be alright one day. But that one day does not seem to be coming any sooner or later. Hence apopemptic.
I have seen people working so hard and then finally upon realization they just do not care anymore. The dedication might have been 150% once upon a time but then eventually they realize it is nothing but making a fool of themselves by being doormats and collecting people's dirt all over themselves just for the sake of having people in life.
There comes a time when you just stop trying, holding and you realize it is way more easy to let go eventually.
I have seen people working so hard and then finally upon realization they just do not care anymore. The dedication might have been 150% once upon a time but then eventually they realize it is nothing but making a fool of themselves by being doormats and collecting people's dirt all over themselves just for the sake of having people in life.
There comes a time when you just stop trying, holding and you realize it is way more easy to let go eventually.
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