04 March 2014
08:49
The question whether the glass is half filled or
half empty is subjective! You do not have to perform any experiments to prove that..
This universe is comprising of a variety of things!! To call them interesting
or uninteresting would again be subjective..
India has so many diversification... People with
different perspective, stamina, and background staying and working together
here.. My own work place is loaded with so hodgepodge.. I am surrounded with
people from almost all the parts of India.. My own department might be
consisting of people from at least 7 states.. So naturally the outlook of all
would be quite different.. I see when we discuss the problem in a conference
room, to one problem we get 7 different solutions from all of us.. I wonder if
we are actually trying to solve the problem or we adding to it!!
Two best pals differ in lot many ways.. I know my
best pal and I have quite different views.. She gets highly influenced by the surroundings
be it a work place or home.. On contrary, I take time to get that color on
me... It doesn't mean I am acting rigid.. But, I have this habit to
"over-think" at times which makes me to evaluate if the surrounding
is worth getting its impact on me or
not!!
Every situation comes with two faces - good or
bad.. Point is which side you see adequate to make you feel better.. There are people
who could see just one little good thing in the biggest disasters.. Like
surviving Tsunami, in spite of losing your entire family & home &
everything you used to rely on, is real heartbreaking but still survival itself
is a big hope to start everything afresh..
It is just a matter of how you see the things
coming in life.. People make things from wrong perspective - they really do, we
all do.. No one is perfect and only wise ones learn from that so that they
could not repeat the same thing over & over again.. At times, people see
only the wrong or negative side of any situation but one has to remember always
that there is still one more angle to this situation and there is nothing wrong
in trying that.. Already you are looking from negative end i.e. you are ready
for the worst circumstance so looking from other angle would be either better
than this or the same... Hence there is no harm in trying that... Make sure you
have at least given a priority to a "little better" than the worst
scenario... That will make your sight very positive... Seeking small small good things in worst
case, tiny success in midst of biggest failures and little hope to accept the change
for the betterment - that helps a lot to be happy almost all the times...
Problems that we face come as a statement - it is
our emphasis on it which shapes it in small or large size.. Every problem is always
"tailed" with a solution, not every one can see that tail moving
behind the problem.. And this happens because we are so busy in defining the
class of the problem we forget to seek its tailing solution..
Great!!!
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