Are you doing justice to yourself??

09 March 2014

12:19 

It is very easy to judge others.. Many of us have this in their "natural - tendency" to find out faults the moment they see anyone (or/and anything).. But just ask yourself one thing that are you any reference or standard to decide how to carry any personality! Yes, I agree that at times there are insane people who have no sense to carry themselves but a huge chance is that they might not be aware of it... So rather than assuming and bringing out the conclusion, think once more..  

 

It is in human tendency to veto the ideas that are personally not applicable! But we forget that what is not applicable to us is not always wrong!! Or in other words, what is applicable to us is not true always.. We are under the same sky yet some of us staying in different continent see it as dark night and some of us see it as bright sunny day.. 

 

There is one more issue under this - saying "no" to something which is unacceptable.. I have this problem - I couldn't to say no especially to those who are close to me.. Sometimes, I do not quite agree to help people with their ideas but I face this plight to say no.. I have seen people quite take that no in very negative manner irrespective of the depth of relation we share or faith we have in each other - this one word "NO" creates a mess.. But logically if we keep those negative gestures of people aside and stick the decision related to that "NO", it will definitely bring justice to us.. There is a reason for every "NO" and not every "NO" is a negative answer.. I have grasped that very well now in my life and hence now I could say no while seeing right in the eyes of person.. 

 

Every person has a right to think about himself (herself) and there is nothing selfish about that!! There is a difference between thinking about yourself and ONLY thinking about yourself.. Later one creates trouble - it is selfish to think that way but the former is rather a human right!! We all have a right to do justice to ourselves by giving space to our own ideas and thoughts, provided they really do justice!! 

 

These are just few examples to talk about - there are many more possibilities where you have this question for yourself "Am I doing justice to myself by doing this?" Hope you get a satisfactory answer to that..