A step outside your comfort zone..

Sometimes working outside your comfort zone introduces a purely new dimension to your life.. You are totally unfamiliar with the new innings coming in front of you.. I was quite scared with arranged marriage.. But sometimes, you have to give it a chance..

If you get lucky, you find the one who would care to understand the uneasiness inside you.. He would be sensible enough to create an easy - go environment where you feel comfortable to share your thoughts... People like me, who are quite taciturn need some more time to achieve that contentment...

Being practical is quite acceptable and appreciable till some extent.. But there arrives a time when you desire to be with someone who could just be with you and his presence makes you feel easy and secured without exchanging a word at all..

Every relation has its own importance and worth.. You cannot actually compare any two relations for a fact that it would be like comparing washing machine of one brand with a laptop of another brand... There is no point in doing so, both work in different environment and their applications are in total different fields..

Expectations are directly proportional to the proximity with any person... Be it a friend or parents or your love interest... You cannot share each and everything with anyone.. You do not expect any friend to be with you in every situation of your life... There are certain times when you need couple of friends around you but there are times when you need elderly advice no matter how smart or how experienced you are... But there happens to be that one person who would be silently staying in all those times, hoping you to notice that they are there everytime you seek someone to be there around you...

Surviving breakups is never an easy deal... You learn a lot in the process of surviving a breakup.. You get to know who is worth of your attention and your time..  You understand what are the things that you cannot compromise anymore, you get to know what is more important to endure a relation.. Reverence plays an important role, you must have a mutual respect for each other.. With each other, I do not mean it is restricted to two people but it comes as a package.. A package that include their tastes, their friends and family, their decisions.. Whether you agree or disagree, whether you like that or dislike it, you need to respect other's point of view without being disagreeable.. It is rightly said, "you can disagree without being disagreeable"!! So true!!  

Achieving all this might need you to move a little outside your contentment zone and play some new shots which you could not play in previous failures...