Victimhood

One of the worst kind of people are those who always play victim. If you are really unlucky like I once was, you will end up meeting someone who is narcissist that plays victim always. Their impeccable capability of making you feel at fault is beyond imagination.

For me, I think I have born with some real weird luck that I somehow bumped into such kind. Surprisingly, few of my old pals have become one. I have noticed that change but I adapted to that because I believe what is the point of breaking relation of decades! But sometimes I really ignore when they call me up. Gradually you lose that attachment only because the way they treat you. It is like they are always right and you are always wrong. They will never apologize for their wrong doings but if you do the same, you will be world's biggest criminal and they will start victimhood.

Sometimes they do it so well that you are convinced that it is all your fault not theirs. Eventually, when I started observing and studying such situations, I understood it is not me who is at fault but them and they will never accept it for they keep lying to themselves. People like these need a crowd that can feed their ego at regular basis.

For me, I am no pleaser so they eventually get fed up of me and cut it down. Which is now kinda cool, it is like the garbage took itself out. Perfect! I do not need anyone who has no vision of themselves.